As for the rules of love, i pearsonaly dont believe that there should be any, its your life so do what you want, but unfortunately thats not how it works. There are never any spoken rules but there are a shit load of "unspoken" rules. The unspoken rules are a bunch of crap rules that are implied as soon as you join a group of friends or a clique. I think that the one rule that everyone knows is that if a guys and a girl are dating, and she breaks up with him, but he still has feelings for her, than any other guys is not allowed to ask her out. but if he breaks up with her than he is allowed to ask her out, but he might not want to for a couple of weeks just because there is all that break up drama if they had been going out for a while.
Whene people say "nice guys" and "nice girls", theyre referring to those people who beleive in good safe fun and they wont break any rules. Im not sure if a nice guy or girl would kiss on the first date. im not sure if thats actually something that really matters. But they definetly would stay out all night, they would probally be home by a ceartian querfue for bed or dinner. Another thing a good guy or girl would not do is have sex until they are married, they are supposed to wait until they are married and stay pure virgins until that time comes.
these rules are first placed when we are in our infancy stage when we still think that the opposite sex has "cutties" and then it progresses over time. The next step from there is that guys make some sort of pack in their lives that no girl will become friends, or the bros before hos rule, and then as when start getting up to high school, more and more rules are placed, creating the unspoken rules.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
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